I have many platonic relationships
I have many platonic relationships with women. In most cases, we've worked out our sexual issues long ago. A lot of my friends are women I've had affairs with, who have since moved on, gotten boyfriends or whatever; that initial spark we might have had when we met has been translated into just hanging out every now and then, sharing a laugh, having a good time. This is pretty much the way that I expect the world to work.