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"You're really hot." "No I'm

"You're really hot."
"No I'm not."

"You're really hot."
"I'm sure you say that to all your ladies."

"You're really hot."
[rolls eyes] "Whatever."

...On the other hand:

"You're really hot."
[mysterious smile] "Thank you."

Lately I've noticed that I get turned on by women who accept compliments graciously. It implies a certain confidence that seems to translate well to a naked situation.

Whereas when a woman rejects a compliment, it sets up a psychological barrier, a slight dissonance that can throw the whole project off-balance.

I love it when women enjoy compliments because it makes me feel like I'm free to say what I'm thinking. I also feel like I have permission to be generous in other ways.

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